Pronouns
English pronouns are the last place the language still marks case — I/me, he/him, they/them — and the first thing to learn is a relief: there is only one "you". No tu/vous, no du/Sie, no tú/usted. You address the Queen and your dog with the same word.
The full set
| subject | object | possessive adjective | possessive pronoun | reflexive |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| I | me | my | mine | myself |
| you | you | your | yours | yourself / yourselves |
| he | him | his | his | himself |
| she | her | her | hers | herself |
| it | it | its | — | itself |
| we | us | our | ours | ourselves |
| they | them | their | theirs | themselves |
- Subject before the verb: She knows. Object after verbs and prepositions: Tell her. Come with me. (Never with I.)
- After be, spoken English uses object forms: It's me. (It is I is museum-piece formal.)
- Pronouns are not optional: Spanish and Italian drop them (hablo, parlo), English never does — I speak, not
speak. Every sentence needs a stated subject, even a dummy one: It's raining. There's a problem.
Possessives: two rows, one trap
- Adjective + noun: my car, their house. Pronoun stands alone: That car is mine. A friend of hers.
- The possessor's own gender decides his/her — not the noun's (there is no noun gender): John and his mother; Mary and her father. French/Italian speakers: sa mère maps to his mother or her mother depending on who owns her.
its vs it's
| means | example | |
|---|---|---|
| its | possessive | The dog wagged its tail. |
| it's | it is / it has | It's raining. It's been ages. |
The apostrophe means contraction, never possession, in pronouns: its, hers, theirs, yours take no apostrophe. (Same trap: their/they're/there, whose/who's.)
Singular they
For a person of unknown or unspecified gender, English uses they/them/their with singular meaning — standard in speech and increasingly in writing:
- Someone left their umbrella.
- If a student fails, they can retake the exam.
- It also serves people who use they as their personal pronoun. Verb stays plural in form: they are.
Reflexives and each other
- Reflexive when subject = object: He cut himself. But English uses far fewer reflexives than Romance and German — everyday verbs like wash, shave, dress, remember, sit down, wake up, feel take no pronoun: I washed and dressed (French je me suis lavé), I feel good (not
I feel myself good— Spanish me siento, German ich fühle mich). - Reciprocal is different: They looked at each other (A→B, B→A) vs They looked at themselves (in the mirror).
One / you for people in general
"One should be careful" is formal; everyday English says you: "You never know." French on as "we" is just we: on y va → we're going.
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